Dating advice
Online dating red flags & scams to watch for
The vast majority of people on Hull Dating are genuine locals just looking to meet someone. But it pays to know the warning signs, wherever you're dating online.
Money is the big one
No genuine match will ask you for money, gift cards, crypto or bank details — ever. If someone does, stop talking to them and report it. This is the single most important rule of online dating.
Common red flags
- Rushing off the app — wants to move to text/WhatsApp straight away.
- Never available in person — won't video call or keeps cancelling meeting up.
- A story that shifts — or one that tugs hard on your emotions very fast.
- Too-polished photos — that don't quite match their story.
- Pressure — to share details, meet somewhere private, or send money.
How Hull Dating helps
Profiles are verified, we warn you in chat if a message looks like a money scam, and you can report or block anyone in a couple of taps. The Verified badge shows who's confirmed they're a real local.
If something feels off
Trust your gut, stop the conversation, and report them. You can also read our full Safe Dating Guide for more.
Put it into practice
Join Hull & East Yorkshire's own dating app — real, verified locals. Free to match & chat.
Create your free profileFAQs
What are the red flags in online dating?
Anyone asking for money, refusing to video call or meet, rushing emotions, or pressuring you. Money requests are the biggest one — never send anything.
Is Hull Dating safe?
Every profile is verified and we warn you about likely scams in chat, but always use your own judgement, meet in public and never send money.
What do I do if someone asks me for money?
Don't send anything. Stop talking to them and report them in the app — genuine matches never ask for money.